oral-sex-1238553_640The Esquire Survey of the American Woman, which was initially published in 2010 and is still popular in 2016, reveals that only 10 percent of women doesn’t like oral sex. While women are more shy in asking their partner what they want in bed, often making the oral attempt look awkward, we bring you some interesting tips to please your woman in bed.

1. Ask a woman what she likes: Don’t assume things. Ask your partner about her preferences and likes. You won’t come across as inexperienced if you ask. In fact, as she opens up and shares her liking, both of you will get to know each other more and your pleasure will increase manifold.

2. Be focused: It’s important to focus on the clit, but do not focus all your attention there. With 8000 nerve endings, the clitoris is super sensitive. So when you focus all you attention there, it borders on being painful. Spread the love using your entire tongue. Take turns to make it soft and rigid.

3. Be gentle: Oral sex is much more than just going down on her. Start slow and be gentle. Start with caressing and kissing her neck, and gently go down. Take turns to kiss her inner thighs and breathe on her labia. Let her enjoy the little nuances of love.

4. There is no rule book: Porn movies will teach you many tricks. Don’t go by those tricks. Remember she is not a porn star, she is your woman. So keep it simple. Make her feel loved. Try swirling your tongue in small circles clockwise and counter-clockwise around her clitoris. You will hit the right spot that would give her orgasmic pleasure.

5. Use your fingers: Once she is turned on, use your fingers to give her the pleasure. Many women enjoy when you put fingers inside the vagina while playing with their clitoris. Try that – she may have a blended orgasm and reach new heights with this technique.

6. Try what you like: Remember the clitoris is like a small penis with double the nerve endings, so doubly sensitive. So think of what pleases you when she goes down on you! Deep suction or gentle sucking? Nibbling or light teeth? Gently try all those techniques on her clitoris. She might like them too.

7. Try different techniques: To make it more fun, try different oral sex technique. Try some of these techniques to make orgasm more fun:

a. Doggy Greet: Use your tongue and penis alternatively. Take her in doggy style and pull out of her when she is about to have an orgasm. Then use your tongue to play with her clitoris until she has her orgasm. Once she has her orgasm, enter her again.

b. Reverse Hug: Hold her upside down in front of you, with her back against your chest and stomach. Wrap your arms around her stomach and lower your face to nibble her clitoris.

8. Don’t make her feel you’re obligated: While you try out new positions, it’s important she doesn’t feel that you’re doing this out of obligation. Remember a woman is most vulnerable when she spreads her leg. So if she feels you’re even a little bored, she will immediately shut you out.

Try these tips to spice up your sex life and add a new flavor to your relationship you have never experienced before.